Be Prepare
Wednesday, 23 February, 2005
| 笔者: Twinsmom
Met up with few old classmates for dinner just now, we went to The Curve, found a cozy restaurant settle down, order the food and the update started.
Three of my friends have children in primary school, and next week will be exam, so three mothers all so stress up because of couching on the kid’s study.
Ermm…I never hear 5xMoM said she need to couch her sons on study.
Then one of my friend is expecting, baby due next month end, with two kids 12 years old and 6 years old at home, she is thinking of hire a maid.
Err…I never hear that 5xMoM said she need a maid even though she is having 4 sons, and the youngest one only 2 years old.
Then on the way home my pregnant friend asked me what brand of formula milk is the best.
I said: “Breast milk is the best.” She keeps quiet.
My friend got jumping up side down because of her son playing computer game, and broke her hand phone because throwing it while in rage.
I never hear that 5xMoM throw her hand phone because of the kids playing computer game, her #5 throw her hand phone may be lar.
Another friend wipe all her kid’s home work to the floor because she refused to finish the home work, and my friend even tear one of the workbook and throw it in the dustbin, then her kid go and picked it up again.
This is really new to me; never hear of it, not from my parent either, even though they used to chase us with the cane from the shop front to the back, then kicked the toilet door because my sister (not earthtone) went hiding inside.
Then another friend told her son stand outside the house also because he refuses to study.
Again, I never hear this from 5xMoM also.
When my friends asked me how I handle the girls, I must be either stick to the wall, or jump up to the ceiling most of the time, they thought.
I told them I LOVE them, I can’t bare to cane them even when they pour half of bottle of the soy sauce on my bed, because I just felt so grateful they did drop the bottle and broke it, they looks at me with disbelieve.
They asked me how I can be so calm and so patient.
I told them because they not staying with me, so never see me gone mad, hahaha…then I told them I have seen kids who are not able to run, jump, and talk in the hospital, and how the mother who take care of the sick kid hope their kid can be naughty, instead of laying motionless on the bed.
They keep quiet.
I think either they don’t like me to compare their kids with the sick kids in hospital, or they are giving a deep thought to what I have said.
May be my girls not up to that stage yet, so I don’t know how the situation will be.
But I’ll look up to good example to bringing up my girls, I wander how they will be when they start going to school, and how I’ll be when handle their study, but now everything just plain wander.
All I can do is just prepare, prepare myself not to end up like my friends, I certainly don’t want I become like them when they ready to school, just like I never see my parent got mad on my study, not even when my math got a big “0”.