life before and after…
Saturday, 1 April, 2006
Kids | 笔者: Twinsmom
before…
:mn:: “姐姐妹妹，冲凉…” (jie jie mei mei, take your bath…)
no answer….
:mscold:: “姐姐! 妹妹! 冲凉… 过来！” (jie jie! mei mei! take your bath… come here!)
still no answer…
:mfire:: “姐姐! 妹妹! 冲凉… 过来！我拿 rotan!” (jie jie! mei mei! take your bath… come here! I take rotan!)
:isa: :anna:: “Coming, coming…”
now…
:anna:: “Mommy… I want to go bath bath…”
:mn:: “No lar, 还早，等下先。” (no lar, still early, wait for a while.”
:anna:: “But I so smelly wor, I so dirty, you see….” slip her baju show me her belly.
:mn:: “妈咪要煮饭，煮了饭你们吃了才冲凉。” (mommy have to cook, after cook and you all hav lunch, then can bath.”
:iangry:: “I want, I want! I want!
I want 冲凉！！！
”
:mscold:: “好了啊！不要这样撒野，要我拿rotan? ” (enough! don’t throw tantrum like this, want me to take rotan?”
Life before and after they play bubble during bath time.
wahahhaha….. bubble again..!! cham lor..u all got bubble virus liao…
hahhaha!
Hhahaa!! kids are just too cute..!!
You should say, “If bath now, cannot play bubble.”
好好笑！嘅又rotan,嘅做又rotan、小孩子也不易做架！
如果D细路仔識上綱blog about 佢哋对我哋做父母的睇法、唔知會点樣呢？
Before Twinsmom’s Mom use Rotan for Twinsmom, NOW Twinsmom use Rotan for Twins.
哇，你爽不爽就拿藤条吓他们，改天藤条没效啦！嘻嘻！
她们会不会精神分裂？呵呵。。。
冲不冲凉都会被藤条恐吓。。呵呵。。。
>> Milly, my house very bubbly now :D.
>> mom2ashley, hahaha lar, soon will be your turn blow bubbles , then I “hahaha…”
>> MamaBok, yah, they really are :).
>> Jason, 没有效的，试过了。
>> Blogie-talkie, 呃… 说真的，我实在不会从她们的角度来看我自己，应该试一试了。
>> Tom, yah…. clever…
>> Jesslyn, 呃…现在还在光说不做的阶段罢了，还有效，等没有效了就真的打了
>> cming, 精神分裂不会啦，精神受损可能啰，哈哈哈… 这妈妈真变态。
Wah.. bubbles give them so much motivation to take bath ah??
Why this mummy always because of bath take rotan one?
Parenthood is so tough hoh Maria? Actually I can understand the pain of even mentioning the cane. It’s really not easy to come to this stage, but if nothing else work, we would resolve in using rotan …
Reminds me of those days when I was teaching in a primary school. At first I thought I would never use a cane, but those 8-9 yr old kids would think that you’re too kind and take you for granted. So? no cane means no need to do homework, no need to study for spelling, etc. Fine, cane them I must. At first I was only caning their palm lightly. Mana tahu they said “don’t worry about this Ms.Ng, not painful at all, don’t worry!” If it was you what would you think/do? Next time of course cane harder ….
Aigh … kids these days …
kekekeke Xuan also the same…
either
Xuan :”我的衣服臭臭liao,要bath-bath liao”
mummy : -_-”
OR
mummy : “Xuan!!!来 bath-bath,快来!!!,不然就 cane-cane”
*xuan playing his car car on the iron board, pretend didn’t hear anything*
boh-Lat.
yoh xuan xuan knows how to pretend at this age?
headache!
aiya children grow up had alot of changes. You always used ‘cane’ bully them ar?? Just like me not a patient mother..muahaha but i didnt used ‘cane’ just say cause cant find the ‘cane’.
>> Zara’s mama, not just bath leh, a lot of stuff also use rotan wan, get them immune so next tiem can bully teacher
>> Greenapple, whao… the kids have the skin thicker than the rino!!!
We try not to use cane too often, but like what you experienced before, some the girls just 不见棺材不流眼泪 (like my mom said about me and the siblings).
the other day daddy just mention may be we should treat our kids like other’s kids, I thought he means don’t care too much of them, but daddy said “no, it is because we never use rotan on other people’s kids, and we are more tolerant and have more patience to other’s kids.”
And we practise it now.
>> Leecs, 不懂是我们被孩子玩弄于掌股之间，还是他们逃不过我们的五指山。
>> 1+2mom, hey, you can borrow my cane :lol:.
maria, reading ur reply to greenapple, I think of other way.
父母的打是疼，骂是爱。自己的孩子还是需要自己教，总不能期望别人能帮你‘打’或‘骂’他们。有的孩子吃软不吃硬，有的吃硬不吃软。有的有时可以硬，但有时却要用软的。自己最了解孩子，适当时需要用体罚，当然需要先了解情况后才能施以体罚。
有没试过见到别人的孩子非常调皮，自己真的很想教训教训他们？但因不是自己的孩子，所以要忍受、忍耐他们的无理。同时心里想为什么他们父母不教？但只能想不能做的这情况，试过吗？心痛为什么他们父母没教好他们，让他们显得没家教？
慈母/父多败儿。想一想还是要教吧，而该用什么方法，自己最清楚。体罚，某程度是需要的。
其实parenting真的是“走着瞧”，很难说有一个固定的方法来“搞掂”他们啰，但是我们真的希望可以少用到藤鞭，因为不希望她们“免疫”嘛，要不然以后她们和老师说和青苹果的学生一样的话，很惨啰… 可能我天天给老师叫去学校投诉，哈哈哈…
not much difference nia… coz still end up with Rotan also… LOL!
Haha. So cute your drawing with you got fire coming out from your head. My boy will tell me he “Umm ummm” (even though he didn’t) everytime he wants to go to the bathroom to play.
>>egghead, that why say parent very “gan” lor… LOL…
>> MG, so amazing right? our kids can twist and turn the situation.
next time I make one icon after the fire gone, my hair all burnt liao wan.