Classic case on breaking up
Monday, 26 June, 2006
Busy Body | 笔者: Twinsmom
HJ called and told me a classic case on breaking up with boyfriend.
She had a joint venture with her boyfriend (oops! sorry now is ex-bf) to set up a company to do a MLM (multi level marketing) business. Since four years ago they did it quite well, but now because of the differences in their personalities, she has decided to end the relationship. But the business still running.
Then one day they had a discussion, and both agreed to break up the business partnership as well. The company will still remain, but they have to decide who will take over and be the team leader. In the end the guy said he will take it.
So fine, the guy is now fully taking care of the company, but for what HJ has done in the business, she still has the 50% share on the income from the previous business, what the guy builds (down line) after HJ has left is totally his own business. For HJ, she needs to build up her connection all over again, but at least she can find some side income doing some odd job to sustain her current situation, fair right?
So recently HJ took up an offer, doing a 10 days road show for a big company, earning her 1k<> of side income, and her ex-bf also know about this. At the same time the monthly income from the previous MLM company also coming in. Her ex-bf gave her the amount of the share, but later asked her if she could loan him some money.
HJ got irritated about it, because having been together for almost 6 years, the guy should be pretty well aware of her financial status. Beside her own expenses, she has to pay for her three kids’ expenses, let alone her unsettled bank loan, so on and so forth.
She said she doesn’t have the money for him. Then, her ex-bf said this :- “Since the income of the company is being shared between us, I think if any one of us who has any side income should put it back to the company, and then divide the total income between the partners.” 
This is kind of like if I am a partner of A company, but then I go char-kuew-tiao at night in the pasar-malam, then the CEO of the A company ask me to give him the char-kuew-tiao income and share with other partners in the company.
I can’t believe what I have heard. HJ too, said she took some time to understand what he meant, because the guy put in so many professional terms in his words, so she thought she got him wrong. But later she got a straight answer from him as above mentioned.
Untill now we still can’t believe he said that, he got sense or not?
反轉豬肚就是屎..
errr… all I can say is… what a loser!! taking money from a lady with kids some more!
Wau lau oi..!! like dat also can ka..?? good thing your friend is no longer with him anymore..! What a loser..!! and a stupid one at that.. !! or a rather scheming one..!
I think the best thing is they are apart now…Wow… what a relief..!
And may I add too :- LOSER.
Cheapskate…
This is what I hate to hear, guys lurking for money or gifts after breaking up. My ex also did something like that. Benci!
Money face guy!
Cannot believe she can with this kind of loser for 6 year!!!!
情已逝、錢作怪！
男人好时係”男人” 唔好時係”难忍” 㗎！
為今之計，衹有用”白纸黑字”方式來保障自己係最適合不過了！
no wonder my boss will consider so many b4 breakup with her husband lah..talk about money ahh..really ‘六亲不认’ahh…
一種米養百種人呐……
what a shame !!! Ask him can share expense also not?
Luckily she break up with him liao if not she more worst in her life with him. Yalor ask him wanna share for the expenses too??
Oh well, business and courtship doesn’t go well together. There is always the $$ problem in between.