Earthtone在她最近的文中说:

……when she called, I realised I had been using her space too. Some of my old soap making stuffs were sent to her place after my mother closed her shop. She called to ask if I want them when she was cleaning out the space for the Belles’ room…I was undecided – but you know, Twinsmom, if you needed the space, you may throw them away. It’ll be selfish of me to want that space.

What and who did you give to lately?

其实并不介意她用了家里些许的空间,只是想要肯定一下她是否还记得,或在不久的将来还用得着,用得着不介意一直收着,如果用不着就不收了。

一间屋子里不能净是放自己的东西,留一点空间给别人,就像心里留个位子给别人,不能老是想着自己的事。

她最后问最近给了别人一些什么?

上周末出差的时候,和同事一起吃饭,有人捧着一个做慈善的箱子逐个桌子认捐。我放下筷子取出几块钱放进箱子,那人说谢谢走了。

过后同事说不应该在吃饭的时候捐钱,问为什么,他们很奇怪的看着我说:“Pantang(忌讳)*谢谢Allison纠正*,你不知道的吗?那是把你自己的吃食(食禄)给了别人啊。”

有点不解的说:“为什么不可以呢?我那是分享啊,反正我都有得吃了。”

自己在吃的时候更应该想到不够吃,或没有得吃的人,自己都在吃了,意思说自己是‘有’的,既然‘有’为什么不‘舍’那一点呢?

从来不是个pantang(忌讳,迷信)的人。

有点跑题了。

P/S:肥仔,要拍多点花的照片放在我的部落格噢。

7 thoughts on “

  1. not ‘pantang’ meh…?

    i agree we should never forget to ‘give’ when we are ‘taking’ and ‘having’ most of the time. but i will be careful in judging if they’re cheaters or not… ppl are so used to abuse our kind intentions nowadays…

  2. 没听说过呢。这里也是很多人在吃饭的时候叫我们买贵贵的tissue。要pantang是没有理由的。可能也只不过是不喜欢在吃饭的时候被打扰说的话。

  3. Allison, thanks for your correction 😉

    湘绣蜻蜓,呵呵……无奇不有。

    Earthtone,可不可以把整个脸埋进碗里假假看不见?

    夏之星,希望不会有需要别人给我的一天 😉

    Melysa,hey……confinement over huh?

    耳朵姑娘,谢谢你到访,多可爱的名字。

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